I am constantly making observations about the world around me, but have rarely shared them in writing. I usually reserve them for candid conversations with those who help me process my observations to the point of understanding. I value this practice, because it seems like we can lose sight of the shifting environment around us.
And just like the frog slowly boiling in the pot of water, we can be surprised by how sharply yet subtly our surroundings have changed.
The current state of affairs in our nation has lead to some interesting observations.
Donald Trump is a polarizing President in already polarized times for our nation.
I voted for him. He was not my first choice, but nonetheless I voted for him. I was as surprised as anyone when he won (and I have my electoral predictions to prove it).
And based on our process, he was elected President. Now, nearly half the nation did NOT vote for him, so I recognize the sentiment behind rejecting him because he does not represent your vote.
However, he is still the President. He may not represent your values or your vote, but he is in fact your President.
This may be troubling to you, and I understand that.
This sentiment is widely expressed, but is there any room for this for us? (By us, I mean followers of Christ)
I would argue no. Because we know that the Lord establishes those in positions of authority (Romans 13). We are all subject to the law and to the government officials placed in positions of authority.
I think it would be wise for us to take a step back and ask: Am I being a source of division, or a source of unity?
Our nation is divided enough as it is. This same nation needs to see a united Church, looking to Jesus for answers, because looking to Washington DC will leave us lacking every time.
Why have we become so comfortable with the breaking of laws?
Lawlessness is almost celebrated in our current culture. We have even had government officials allowing riots and the destruction of property to continue without taking action in a timely fashion.
Consider that: the very people elected to uphold the law allowing lawlessness to continue much longer than it should.
This is troubling to me.
Why? Because to me it reflects the subtle but steady moral decline of our society. This is not a social issue. This is not a political issue. It is a spiritual issue.
If you don’t believe me, at least take a quick look at your Bible and see all of the times lawlessness is mentioned.
Everyone who makes a practice of sinning also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness.
1 John 3:4
You have loved righteousness and hated lawlessness; this is why God, Your God, has anointed You with the oil of joy rather than Your companions.
These are just a couple of examples pulled from the countless in Scripture. It is humbling to consider how the continual, ongoing practice of sin is tantamount to lawlessness.
Pretty serious stuff here.
Disagree without being Disagreeable
I was having a conversation with a few friends of mine who represent the opposite end of the political spectrum. We were having a candid conversation about the current state of affairs. I stated my positions, they stated theirs.
And in all of this, something amazing happened.
We didn’t fight, curse, snarl, character assassinate, name call, etc. We simple left the conversation and went on our way with a better understanding of opposing views.
It seems we are losing this art. The art of disagreeing without being disagreeable.
How do we regain this ability? Outside of just generally being respectful of everyone, I have discovered that it helps to practice empathy. A simple “Why?” can go a long way in aiding understanding.
Consider your background.
When I consider mine, it is not a surprise that I hold more conservative views.
- Raised in the Southeast
- By middle class Christian parents
- Including a father in law enforcement
- And then I joined the military at age 20
I went to one of the most progressive universities in the country but that experience could not overwhelm the factors mentioned above.
My worldview was set. And the person you are talking to/disagreeing with, has the very same set of inputs influencing their views.
Disagree without being Disagreeable.